In a world focused on achieving, building, and to-do lists, it can be easy to get stuck in masculine energy. When we let go and surrender to femininity we heal, connect, play and attract. It’s the energy that makes you magnetic to your desires instead of you having to go out and chase them. It’s the energy that draws in the masculine.

3 Ways to be in your feminine energy

1. Tune into the present moment

Try to feel into all your senses and practice acceptance and gratitude for everything. See the better side of all the things around you. From gratitude see if you can move into love. Notice things to love all around you. This gets you more into your heart and turns up your magnetism. It’s how you start to attract everything you want.

2. Feel your emotions

What ever feelings are coming up for you, whether you perceive them as bad or good, accept them and feel deeper into them. As deep as you can. The deeper you feel, the more you heal and transform situations and your life to what you want. So don’t run from the pain, or pleasure, sink into it. This makes you magnetic to masculine energy.

3. Allow what is. Surrender control (Zero trying/chasing energy)

Let go of judgment and the need to fix. Allow everything around you to just be, including whatever’s going on within you. Feminine energy is more of the observer while masculine energy is action-oriented and problem-solving. The next time you’re in a tricky situation try staying present and allowing. Stay in the unknown and trust that everything is working out for you. Relax and redirect your attention from the problem.

If you find it hard to stay in your body, and the urge to think and fix things is strong, think of ten things you would feel or want to feel if the problem were resolved. Do this instead of analyzing and trying to figure things out. I call this feminine thinking. It may feel impossible in the moment because the problem feels so heavy. But you’d be amazed at how quickly things will start to change when you do this.

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