Lover energy is inherently feminine and magnetic. And more importantly it makes you feel amazing.

It’s all about treating yourself to the best, and making peace, self-care/love, and self-acceptance a priority. It’s also deeply relaxing, vulnerable, and intimate.

”When you are love, you attract love.”

1. Take a luxurious bath

There’s nothing like relaxing into a hot bath. Just thinking about it makes me feel more at ease. I like to add bath salts, body oils and sometimes baking soda, or bath bombs to mine. I’ve recently been using this beautiful bath salt and body oil by AK Water Body They were both handmade locally here in Alaska. I love the ingredients, smelled amazing, and just made my bath experience feel so luxurious, nourishing, and soothing. I also like to add rose petals when I have them to make it even more special. 🥀 Oh and you can’t forget to dim the lights and add music and candles.

2. Mirror affirmations to increase your confidence and inner sexiness

When you transform what’s going on on the inside, you transform what’s on the outside. This means you can even be sexy in sweatpants and a T-shirt.

Here are some of my favorite affirmations for tapping into that sexy confident lover energy. I love them so much. You can use them in the morning and at night before bed. You can also use them throughout the day when you need a little boost.

• I’m a sexy woman
• I love myself
• I’m a beautiful vessel of love and stardust
• I’m magnetic
• I have an extremely attractive and magnetic aura
• Everything is always working out for me
• I am hypnotizing and mesmerizing
• I am the essence of love and light
• I’m confident and irresistible
• I love my body and I love the way I look

3. Belly dancing

Belly dancing helps you get into your body which allows you to be more in your feminine energy and sensuality. All qualities of the lover essence.

I used to dance all the time but I had been out of practice for a while. So when I first started doing this again I felt somewhat awkward. Now I just don’t care and I focus on having fun. It makes me feel super sexy and happy.

4. Write an appreciation letter to your “flower”

Doing this can feel a little strange but it’s a beautiful experience. Our flowers bring life into the world, give us pleasure, it cleanses itself every month, and it sometimes has to go through some hard times lol 😅.

So write a letter to her thanking her for all she does and asking her to forgive you of any past mistakes.

5. Get Quality Sleep and Set Your Circadian rhythm

Good sleep always you to feel happier, more attractive, it reduces anxiety and depression and it gives you that radiant glow. It’s a good area of your life to set some hard boundaries around time to make sure you’re getting eight hours, or at least seven, or sleep each night.

I hope you get to try these tips and enjoy getting into your lover energy 💗. Leave a comment below if you do.

Warm regards,

Alex